Если вы шипперить пейринг, в котором двое идеологические противники, то знайте — все правильно делаете. Вообще, лучший сорт отношений ever. Энтропия таким отношениям не грозит никогда, не говоря уж о пользе для мироздания Жаль, люди не понимают, что спорить иногда можно и без негатива по отношению к личности.

« ...He said, "My job is to prove Dr. Stewart wrong." He actively sought disconfirmation. Different ways of looking at her models, at her statistics, different ways of crunching the data in order to disprove her. He saw his job as creating conflict around her theories. Because it was only by not being able to prove that she was wrong, that George could give Alice the confidence she needed to know that she was right...»

«And the more I've thought about this, the more I think, really, that that's a kind of love. Because you simply won't commit that kind of energy and time if you don't really care. And it also means that we have to be prepared to change our minds»


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